Vanilla sex is not everyone’s cup of tea. There are people who have kinky fetishes and fantasies. You might be one of them and your desire might be to become a slave to a strong, independent woman. Wanting to submit to the charms of a woman does not mean that you have to be a submissive person in your daily life as well. It might just be that you are someone who likes to be bossed around when in bed. This is completely normal and more people are becoming part of the BDSM universe thanks to Fifty Shades of Grey.
So, what is your fantasy? If you are a newbie, it is important to note that being a submissive does not always mean being hit or bruised. There are different levels of domination-submission relationships. For instance, you might be someone who wants to explore light BDSM. light BDSM involves light spanking or flogging, your dominatrix might casually insult you or ask you to do things to her or for her.
If you have already tried light BDSM, the next level would be mild BDSM and this is a good combination of light and intense BDSM. In mild BDSM, the dominatrix will spank you firmly, but not in a way that leaves marks. She may tie your legs and hands, blindfold you and tease you whilst asking you to control having an orgasm.
The last and final level is the intense BDSM and this is reserved for hardcore submissives. This is for those who enjoy a ballbusting experience because pleasure only comes from pain. If you want the mistress to leave marks, you have to discuss that prior to your session.
So, if you have always wanted to submit to a stunning woman with sadistic desires clad in leather or PVC and holding out a whip, see a dominatrix. She will turn your fantasies to reality in a safe environment. Also, she will make sure that flogging or spanking is done in a way that does not result in serious injuries.